Hi Charlotte,
It’s not important whether I think your husband is having an affair or not. What matters is what you think, regardless of whether he is or isn’t. Maybe there is an element of you enjoying the thought of your husband having sex with someone, although if it is distressing you so much I would try and focus on something else for a while.
Try approaching the topic again when you have a little more distance. It’s possible that Doug senses your hysteria and is avoiding dialogue. Men can be terribly weak like that. I once finished with a neurotic girlfriend in a crowded pub because I thought she would be too embarrassed to breakdown or make a scene there.
Doctor B

LOVING your blog :)
(and yes, they can be terribly wead like that!)
ps: "blogs I hate" - I hate that one too!
Posted by: mez | October 21, 2006 at 03:17 PM