Is sex dirty? Only if it’s done right. -Woody Allen
Hello Charlotte,
Pushing existing sexual boundaries or changing ways of expressing yourself can often lead one or both partners to experience discomfort or embarrassment-many people opt to stay in a tired comfort zone rather than risk disturbing the status-quo. The fact that you enjoyed your husband’s change of approach shows that you are open to the idea of experimenting, but understandably need the love and support of your husband to take away any feelings of unease, which the change engenders.
Introducing new sexual technique does not necessarily herald an affair- admittedly it can be a sign. The real problem here lies in the lack of communication prior, during or following the event.
As for splitting with a girlfriend in the pub, I wouldn’t recommend it; she screamed piercingly and had an epileptic fit on the floor.

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